Sunday, February 6, 2011

The Venue

So, we officially have a church, a venue and a wedding party.  Woo hoo!  We will be getting married on October 6th, 2012 (plenty of time to be wedding dress ready and lose weight).  We are thrilled that we got the church of our dreams and that everyone we asked to be a part of the wedding said yes!  


This is the front of our venue.
This is the entrance to the ballroom as seen from inside the ballroom.
I hate the carpet in this venue, but when all the tables are up you wont see it too much.
This is where the head table will be set up.  Outside the windows is a veranda
that people can go out on during the reception.
This is the whole length of the ballroom.
This is where we will set up our escort cards and welcome table.
Stairs leading up to the bridal suite.

Front door area.
Door area leaving the cocktail room going towards the main entrance.
Large cocktail area.  Through the doors is another cocktail area that has huge picture windows that overlook the beautiful golf course.


So, moving on from wedding stuff for now and onto the new and exciting things coming to my blog!!!  I decided to discontinue Saturday Sessions because it just seems like I am focusing too much on the short term and not enough on bigger goals.  I am going to start doing a monthly session on the first day of every month rather than something every Saturday.  My hope is that this will mean that I make bigger goals and have longer time to accomplish them. It seems like when I was making goals for SS before they were so short term and I was finding that it wasn't having the lasting impact that I hoped it would have.  So the new thing will be called Monthly Sessions and I am starting it today!  I am one day late, so I apologize for that!


Goals of the month are...


1. Lose 10 pounds. 
This may seem slightly aggressive and it might be.  I feel like I need to kick it in and really set a high goal.  I want to lose 10 pounds a month leading up to my wedding, which is a little over 2 pounds a week, so we will see how it goes!
2. Donate my over-sized clothes
I don't want to keep my fat clothes as a crutch.  When they don't fit they are going to be donated.  I just can't have them sitting around telling me that it is okay when my jeans don't fit and encouraging me to grab the fat jeans and then when they dont fit going a size up and a size up.  It is a slippery slope.  A slope that I have slipped on before and I WON'T do it again!
3. Take a group fitness class at Lifetime 20 of the 28 days of the month.
The group fitness classes really help me lose weight. I push myself harder and go for longer.  I sweat more and I actually enjoy it!  I am not saying that I am taking the other 8 days off, but I am going to go to the gym and take a group class 20 days this month and I am very excited about it!  I promise to post my sweat proof this time so that you don't think I am all talk! :)


I weighed in last Sunday and I was down 2.6 pounds.  A loss is a loss and I am not complaining about it.  I am just aware that I have a timeline that I would like to get to my goal and I can't wait to finally get there.  I am starting to be able to imagine what my thin and helthy life will be like!  This week I weighed in down 1.2 pounds only.  I know this is because I didn't make the best choices, but after grocery shopping today for all healthy items and getting everything cleaned and cut up I feel ready to tackle the week being healthy.

14 comments:

  1. It really looks beautiful. You're going to have an amazing day.

    Also, I might steal your goal #2. That's a great idea :)

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  2. That place is STUNNING. Good find! You are going to have such a beautiful time!!! And it is SO pretty with the snow, so even if it is wintery then it will still be equally as GORGEOUS. So much better than the other places you found!

    Polar's Mom
    www.polarspage.blogspot.com

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  3. What a gorgeous venue! Your wedding is going to be amazing!

    Your losses are great, celebrate every pound! I know sometimes it seems to slow but you will get there - you have been doing amazing!

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  4. Wow! That will be an amazing backdrop for one of the most important days of your life! You will look stunning and walking through those rooms, down those stairs...giving me goosebumps! All I can say is, I can't wait to see the pictures when it is all over.

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  5. Your wedding venue is just perfect! You are going to make a beautiful bride. <3

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  6. This place is gorgeous! Congrats on your engagement and happy planning!

    misslofly.blogspot.com

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  7. I'm getting excited just looking at it! (I'm such a dork when it comes to weddings - lol) Lovely place and thank goodness you can cross these things off your list so that you can focus on other things. Good job on your loss, and even better attitude about it :)

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  8. Love the venue! Beautiful!! Good luck with your goals - just remember your purpose and make choices that support them!! :) You can do it!!

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  9. i actually just happened to stumble across your blog. i too am losing weight right now. i'm sick of being so uncomfortable in my own skin.
    i think 10 pounds per month is SO DOABLE! i've been using these essential oils called DoTerra and they have really worked for me (and everyone else i know who's tried it. grandma, mom, friends, husband etc.) I've been trying to shed pounds since September 2010, and have already lost 45 pounds. my ultimate goal is to lose 101 pounds to get me to 140.
    sounds like you doing great though! sometimes having a little extra boost to your metabolism and extra energy makes all the difference though.

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  10. Your wedding venue looks really beautiful! I also think that 10lbs a month is very possible, good luck! I'm sure you can do it.

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  11. your wedding is going to be amazing good luck on all your goals!!. The 6th of October is my 10 year anniversary!! I am planning a trip to celebrate so here is to both of us looking amazing

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  12. What a beautiful venue! I just love all of the architectural details. You are going to have some gorgeous photos!

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  13. That's a beautiful, beautiful place. You're going to have a wonderful day!!!!

    I just ran across your blog, I'm your newest follower. I just started blogging a little over a wk ago. I'd love for you to ck it out, and we could all support each other.

    www.changingfromfattofit.blogspot.com

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  14. I'm a little behind on my commenting but my word that is lovely!

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