Some days our willpower is stronger than others. Today, mine was a brick wall, no one was ruining my healthy plan. I walked right past the donuts and drove right past two McDonald's. I didn't even look back once. So, my question is, "what keeps you on track." When you want to derail and succumb to your craving what is something that picks you up and keeps you focused and on track?
For me, I stay focused for a lot of reasons. The first one, because it is the closest is because I am going to Florida in two months. Swimsuits, dresses and shorts. Airplanes (yuck), amusement parks and swimming pools. I want to look better in my pictures this year than I did last year in Hawaii. More than that I want to feel better than I did last year. Next thing, I have five weddings to go to this year. I want to look great in the outfits that I wear and feel comfortable.
One of the major reasons is because I know one year from now I will be trying on wedding dresses. I want to look and feel my best. My sister and several other brides that I know have said, "I wish I would have pushed my self to be as healthy as I could be in my wedding dress." I know people have had to get gowns that they didn't want to because they weren't at their comfortable weight. I don't want to have that problem.
One of the last things that keeps me on track is other people noticing that I am losing weight, complimenting me or telling me that I have inspired them in some way. Yesterday, one of my co-workers wrote to me and said,
"I don’t know why or how it finally happened where I finally couldn’t stand what I was doing to myself, but it happened. I am more focused than I have ever been and I just wanted to thank you for being inspirational in my journey to good health. We work in a bldg with food everywhere, and it is worse for you, because you are like 50 feet away from it. I admire your willpower, strength and determination to do this, despite all the obstacles. It will make you an even stronger person in the long run, it just kind of stinks right now. Feel free to call me to be there for you whenever you feel down and “emotionally hungry”. I have a little note on my computer “If hunger is not the problem, food is not the solution”. And since food hasn’t helped that so far, I’m trying something different this time."
I was very touched by this. Someone that I work with noticed my actions and was able to positively change something in her life as a result. It is the ultimate pay it forward. This is the kind of kind words that keeps me motivated. When you think that it is not just about you, but that someone else looks up to you or notices your hard work you want to continue on even more. I have never been more motivated in my life. I have my friends and family supporting me. I have co-workers who admire me and my willpower. I also have all of you following the ups and downs and keeping me in check.
So, today you should tell someone that you admire them. That you are motivated by their actions and determined to live the healthy lifestyle that the are striving for. You just may say the words that keeps them on track and helps them with a roadblock on their journey! :)
